Parenting a child with autism is a journey filled with unique challenges, triumphs, and learning opportunities. Books written by experts, parents, and individuals with autism can provide valuable insights and practical strategies to support your child’s development and well-being. Whether you’re new to this path or looking for fresh ideas, this list of must-read books is here to help.
1. Autism Every Day
By Alyson Beytien
Written by a mother of three boys on the autism spectrum, Autism Every Day is a collection of heartfelt essays filled with humor and practical advice. Alyson shares over 150 strategies for managing daily life, including tips for IEP meetings, teaching flexibility, and promoting cooperation. This book is a relatable, uplifting resource for parents navigating similar experiences.
2. Carly’s Voice: Breaking Through Autism
By Arthur and Carly Fleischmann
Carly’s Voice tells the remarkable story of a nonverbal girl with autism who learns to communicate and shares her perspective. Co-written by Carly and her father, the book offers an intimate look into the challenges and breakthroughs of living with autism. The Q&A section at the end, featuring Carly’s answers to common questions, provides profound insights for parents and caregivers.
3. Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew
By Ellen Notbohm
This book, written from a child’s perspective, is a concise yet impactful guide for parents and educators. Ellen Notbohm explores key concepts like understanding non-verbal communication, respecting sensory sensitivities, and fostering a child’s strengths. Its easy-to-read format makes it a great introduction for anyone wanting to deepen their understanding of autism.
4. 101 Games and Activities for Children with Autism, Asperger’s, and Sensory Processing Disorders
By Tara Delaney
Play is a powerful tool for learning, and this book is packed with fun, creative activities designed to support sensory development, motor skills, and communication. Tara Delaney, an occupational therapist, provides simple instructions for games that can be easily adapted for children of all abilities. It’s a must-have for parents looking to blend play with meaningful growth.
5. A Work in Progress: Behavior Management Strategies and Curriculum for Intensive Behavioral Treatment of Autism
By Ron Leaf and John McEachin
If you’re exploring ABA therapy (applied behavior analysis), this book is an invaluable resource. It breaks down strategies for addressing problem behaviors, improving communication, and teaching essential life skills. With its clear and structured approach, it’s perfect for parents seeking actionable guidance to support their child’s development.
6. The Reason I Jump: The Inner Voice of a Thirteen-Year-Old Boy with Autism
By Naoki Higashida
Written by a 13-year-old boy with autism, this book offers an extraordinary glimpse into the thoughts and feelings of someone on the spectrum. Naoki answers common questions about autism with honesty and grace, providing readers with a deeper understanding of how their child might experience the world. His message, “Please never give up on us,” resonates deeply.
Why These Books Are Important
Each of these books offers unique perspectives and actionable advice, empowering parents to better understand and support their child. From strategies rooted in applied behavior analysis to firsthand accounts from individuals with autism, these resources can inspire hope and confidence on your parenting journey.
Knowledge is one of the greatest tools you can have as a parent. By exploring these titles, you’ll gain insights into autism, discover practical solutions for everyday challenges, and connect with the broader autism community.
Bonus Book!
7. Smart but Scattered
By Peg Dawson and Richard Guare
Many children with autism face challenges with executive functioning skills like organization, planning, and emotional regulation. Smart but Scattered provides parents with tools to help their children build these critical skills. The book includes practical strategies for kids ages 4 to 13, along with a teen edition for older children.
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